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		<title>Comment on Who are you?  What are you creating? by Mark Vice</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark Vice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 04:03:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love it!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Because I want to see Autumn by Jea</title>
		<link>http://janicevaldez.com/?p=78&#038;cpage=1#comment-134</link>
		<dc:creator>Jea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Dec 2007 05:37:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A Binukot is part of a fading tradition in an indigenous tribe in a south island of the Philippines. It's a title given to a maiden woman who is extremely protected. She does not work and is carried anywhere she needs to go. Her role in the tribe is to sing epic chants at special ceremonies likeweddings. I'll write about the presentation when it happens in Victoria in the New Year. Thanks for asking.

Imagine that you do something purely because you want to, because you see the value in the act, not out of fear that something bad will happen if you don't.  I don't believe that humans need fear to be motivated.  I think that is a misconception about our power to create pro-actively.  It's true that many are fear-based when choosing action, but we have it in us to rise above the fear and act our of the love and joy of creating.  For every action and thought is creating our world.

What's 'op-ed pieces'? I like the poem. I take that it speaks of control and acceptance and it's something I work towards to be as gracious as the leaf. However, a person is more powerful than a leaf in knowing how to direct one's course through this world. One can't control how the world and the people will react or respond to my choices, but if one becomes disciplined and wise enough in choosing one's own thoughts and actions, the world will follow. In fact, even if we aren't disciplined and mindful, the Universe follows our example and as such, we have the world as it is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A Binukot is part of a fading tradition in an indigenous tribe in a south island of the Philippines. It&#8217;s a title given to a maiden woman who is extremely protected. She does not work and is carried anywhere she needs to go. Her role in the tribe is to sing epic chants at special ceremonies likeweddings. I&#8217;ll write about the presentation when it happens in Victoria in the New Year. Thanks for asking.</p>
<p>Imagine that you do something purely because you want to, because you see the value in the act, not out of fear that something bad will happen if you don&#8217;t.  I don&#8217;t believe that humans need fear to be motivated.  I think that is a misconception about our power to create pro-actively.  It&#8217;s true that many are fear-based when choosing action, but we have it in us to rise above the fear and act our of the love and joy of creating.  For every action and thought is creating our world.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s &#8216;op-ed pieces&#8217;? I like the poem. I take that it speaks of control and acceptance and it&#8217;s something I work towards to be as gracious as the leaf. However, a person is more powerful than a leaf in knowing how to direct one&#8217;s course through this world. One can&#8217;t control how the world and the people will react or respond to my choices, but if one becomes disciplined and wise enough in choosing one&#8217;s own thoughts and actions, the world will follow. In fact, even if we aren&#8217;t disciplined and mindful, the Universe follows our example and as such, we have the world as it is.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Because I want to see Autumn by Mike Dorris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike Dorris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Nov 2007 03:12:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jea,

Fascinating question regarding motivation diminishing once an activity becomes expected. I have certainly experienced this in my job as well. It's amazing how a shift in context/control can make the same activity joyful or tedious. Ultimately, I like to think that joy drives me, but don't disparage fear so quickly; it drives our productivity. Without fear we may never get off the couch.

Ideally, but often not successfully, I wish to dissociate/free myself from fear (somehow like Leonard Cohen did in one of your previous "perfect offering" quote). I think it is the misleading to ask how we would act if we knew that success were assured rather than how we would act if our pride didn't hold us back. Here is a belated autumn quote from the leaf's point of view:

A leaf was riven from a tree,
"I mean to fall to earth," said he.

The west wind, rising, made him veer.
"Eastward," said he, "I now shall steer."

The east wind rose with greater force.
Said he: "'Twere wise to change my course."

With equal power they contend.
He said: "My judgment I suspend."

Down died the winds; the leaf, elate,
Cried: "I've decided to fall straight."

"First thoughts are best?" That's not the moral;
Just choose your own and we'll not quarrel.

Howe'er your choice may chance to fall,
You'll have no hand in it at all.

I've read a lot of op-ed pieces in my day and you should consider filling a psychoanalyst/martha stewart/buddhist niche.

P.S. What is a Binukot.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jea,</p>
<p>Fascinating question regarding motivation diminishing once an activity becomes expected. I have certainly experienced this in my job as well. It&#8217;s amazing how a shift in context/control can make the same activity joyful or tedious. Ultimately, I like to think that joy drives me, but don&#8217;t disparage fear so quickly; it drives our productivity. Without fear we may never get off the couch.</p>
<p>Ideally, but often not successfully, I wish to dissociate/free myself from fear (somehow like Leonard Cohen did in one of your previous &#8220;perfect offering&#8221; quote). I think it is the misleading to ask how we would act if we knew that success were assured rather than how we would act if our pride didn&#8217;t hold us back. Here is a belated autumn quote from the leaf&#8217;s point of view:</p>
<p>A leaf was riven from a tree,<br />
&#8220;I mean to fall to earth,&#8221; said he.</p>
<p>The west wind, rising, made him veer.<br />
&#8220;Eastward,&#8221; said he, &#8220;I now shall steer.&#8221;</p>
<p>The east wind rose with greater force.<br />
Said he: &#8220;&#8216;Twere wise to change my course.&#8221;</p>
<p>With equal power they contend.<br />
He said: &#8220;My judgment I suspend.&#8221;</p>
<p>Down died the winds; the leaf, elate,<br />
Cried: &#8220;I&#8217;ve decided to fall straight.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;First thoughts are best?&#8221; That&#8217;s not the moral;<br />
Just choose your own and we&#8217;ll not quarrel.</p>
<p>Howe&#8217;er your choice may chance to fall,<br />
You&#8217;ll have no hand in it at all.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve read a lot of op-ed pieces in my day and you should consider filling a psychoanalyst/martha stewart/buddhist niche.</p>
<p>P.S. What is a Binukot.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Speak, Shout, Sing&#8230;whatever it takes to be Free. by Jea</title>
		<link>http://janicevaldez.com/?p=75&#038;cpage=1#comment-132</link>
		<dc:creator>Jea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Oct 2007 07:08:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well said, Mike...well said.  I like that Cockburn quote. Thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well said, Mike&#8230;well said.  I like that Cockburn quote. Thanks.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Speak, Shout, Sing&#8230;whatever it takes to be Free. by Mike Dorris</title>
		<link>http://janicevaldez.com/?p=75&#038;cpage=1#comment-131</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike Dorris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Oct 2007 03:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jea,

Love your LC quote! To me, it has a very buddhist sentiment. Me and the Buddha agree that the path to enlightenment is to live in the moment and that a desire for perfection only leads to suffering.

The trick is finding that delicate balance between acceptance and knowing when to pick your battles. On rare occasions, you have to let the light in with a more forceful approach:
"Nothing worth having comes without some kind of fight
Gotta kick at the darkness till it bleeds daylight" - Bruce Cockburn

Mike</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jea,</p>
<p>Love your LC quote! To me, it has a very buddhist sentiment. Me and the Buddha agree that the path to enlightenment is to live in the moment and that a desire for perfection only leads to suffering.</p>
<p>The trick is finding that delicate balance between acceptance and knowing when to pick your battles. On rare occasions, you have to let the light in with a more forceful approach:<br />
&#8220;Nothing worth having comes without some kind of fight<br />
Gotta kick at the darkness till it bleeds daylight&#8221; - Bruce Cockburn</p>
<p>Mike</p>
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		<title>Comment on Unknown source by Candice</title>
		<link>http://janicevaldez.com/?p=68&#038;cpage=1#comment-130</link>
		<dc:creator>Candice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2007 01:13:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for passing this along Jea!

Messages like this help amplify the whispers from my heart and spirit as I struggle to choose and balance the priorities in my life!!

With lots of love to you and your family,
Candice</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for passing this along Jea!</p>
<p>Messages like this help amplify the whispers from my heart and spirit as I struggle to choose and balance the priorities in my life!!</p>
<p>With lots of love to you and your family,<br />
Candice</p>
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		<title>Comment on Would it take 7 million more people to get better transit in BC? by Marcus</title>
		<link>http://janicevaldez.com/?p=64&#038;cpage=1#comment-129</link>
		<dc:creator>Marcus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 08:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Uh huh!  Say it, Sister!

And what's up with transit fares going up in the midst of all the talk of fixing global warming?  Bus service should be getting better, not worse!

I was working on my carbon tax letter again today and I found a good resource for writing The Man:  http://www.sierraclub.ca/bc/publications.shtml  (It's link to a pdf at the bottom of the page).

Roar, snarl, gnash...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Uh huh!  Say it, Sister!</p>
<p>And what&#8217;s up with transit fares going up in the midst of all the talk of fixing global warming?  Bus service should be getting better, not worse!</p>
<p>I was working on my carbon tax letter again today and I found a good resource for writing The Man:  <a href="http://www.sierraclub.ca/bc/publications.shtml" rel="nofollow">http://www.sierraclub.ca/bc/publications.shtml</a>  (It&#8217;s link to a pdf at the bottom of the page).</p>
<p>Roar, snarl, gnash&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Secret by Matthew James</title>
		<link>http://janicevaldez.com/?p=56&#038;cpage=1#comment-110</link>
		<dc:creator>Matthew James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 21:21:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The Book of Willard! That's the real secret.

Life is hard, and I actually believe that there is no secret!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Book of Willard! That&#8217;s the real secret.</p>
<p>Life is hard, and I actually believe that there is no secret!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Secret by Jea</title>
		<link>http://janicevaldez.com/?p=56&#038;cpage=1#comment-109</link>
		<dc:creator>Jea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 18:23:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Go for it, Matt.  What's the real secret?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Go for it, Matt.  What&#8217;s the real secret?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Date change for &#8220;Learning Out of Bounds&#8221; by Steve Duncan</title>
		<link>http://janicevaldez.com/?p=55&#038;cpage=1#comment-107</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve Duncan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 16:08:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi there.
I would be happy to post information about this event on my Commercial Drive blog if you have more details.
Steve.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there.<br />
I would be happy to post information about this event on my Commercial Drive blog if you have more details.<br />
Steve.</p>
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